Let's just pretend...
Let's just pretend that one is obsessed with someone she works with. And let's just say that person one is obsessed with is a sexy 21-year-old. Let's just say that one has been obsessed with that person for months and months and has wanted to hook up with him for months and months but always told oneself that nothing would happen. Well let's say that something actually happened between one and that person she works with. And let's just say that one has never been happier in her entire life (one means that quite literally). Well let's just say one heard rumors about that person still having ties with his gf. Not that they are dating but not that they are finished either. Should one give up one's happiness because that person's gf wants to get back with that person?
Thanks for the idea Miryam now I bet no one will have any idea about who I am talking about!
P.S. One got her senior pictures as well if anyone would like some let me know...
posted by Reine @ 12:45 PM
10 Comments:
you guys need serious help.
" you guys need serious help."
I second that. Does anyone else find it pointless to talk about yourself as 'one'? One what? One person, cause omg wow thats orginal.
i want a pic!! and i don't know what "one" should do about "one's" problem. i am bad at giving advice. sorry.
hey you always copy me so shut the hell up. your middle name is copy-off-laura
Okay, Lo, you need to cease and desist anything happening between you two because that just means that if the person is still attached to his girlfriend, that just means he's gettin' some on the side. Not cool. And the girlfriend won't appreciate it either. So tell him you won't do anything unless he breaks up with her. It seems like a snotty thing to do, but it is the correct thing to do.
that would probably save you from being hurt too much in the end anyway...
heres the thing. this will sound like the most godawful thing anyone ahs ever heard. but in mikes case i seriously dont think iwould mind if he was using me. maybe there is something wrong with me but its never seemed like such a huge deal to me to be used by guys. i mean not like we (being girls) dont use guys as well. why should it hurt me? i mean i dont want mike as a boyfriend or anything so if he was using me it seems like the next best step.
i can't see being used by someone as the next best step... but if it's making you happy then i guess it's had to oppose that... i guess we just don't want to see you hurt or in the middle of a bad situation
Personally I think you guys are too wrapped up into feelings. If you are constantly thinking about how what you say or what you do will make other people feel you will tend to doubt yourself and live life too defensively and cautiously.
More importantly if you are worried about cheating boyfriends or girlfriends at this age you are probably not ready for dating. In fact I think you should Expect your partner to be with other people. The only way to know if you are happy with someone is to compare it to others, and "going out" should not stand in the way of that.
Being so wrapped up in someone that you can't bare to see them with someone else is called infatuation. I tend to puke when people say that is love. I suppose everyone learns this lesson the hard way or not at all.
Oh and don't try to pull and friend's with benifits crap, because that just ends up being fuck buddies, and then you look like a whore.
i know for a fact im infatuated with mike. i never said i was in love with him im not. theres a huge difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. i love miryam. im not in love with miryam because she is a girl and thats not how i swing. but i still love her. im infatuated with his good looks his good sense of humor and his great personality but i by no means am in love with him and i never said that so dont give me a fucking lecture about love and infatuation because i know the difference.
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