does anyone ever feel unappreciated? cause it seems that with my friends (we're talking males) i'm always giving hugs and saying luv ya but i get nothing back from them except the occasional hug or whatnot. there is only one other person here who gives me hugs without being asked and it kinda sucks. it feels like no one loves me as much as i love them.
so, miss all of ya and your wonderful hugs and kisses. hope things are going better for you.
posted by justsuckit @ 12:54 AM
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I would have to say thats kinda how I felt all senior year...
i think guys are just interesting... i know exactly where you are coming from it's just like... like me! show me that you like me!
the sad truth is that guys really aren't interested in hugs unless it's naked and attached to a vuh jay jay.
I gotta say....my firefighter man friends gimme lovin' ALLLL the time.
boys have no feelings, especially straight boys
unles they are really 12 year old girls in disguise...then they give you more hugs than you want...but then you have to deal with the drama of who gave the hug to who first and if the hug was returned enough of if they were just faking their feelings and if the ex-girl friend of the guy who intiated the hug will get jealous or obnoxious about the hug that meant nothing to the person whom it was given to even though it meant everything to the person giving it but does that really mean anything? cause the ex-girlfriend's best friend says it different but her room mate's sister's neighbor's dog sitter's aunt says it doesn't but you beg to differ cause there were vibes...and we all know that vibes are king in the world of 12 year old girl drama...
I miss that. I mean i do get hugs and stuff, but they arent the same as the high school ones. :(
oh, and the drama here is five times worse. I thought that by college people wouldnt be so dramatic, but there is soooo much more drama. it drives me nuts.
i would like to second (or third?) the motion of over drama in college. too many people here are still twelve. and i thought some things were obvious. like stealing. stealing is bad. but apparently some people (including my roommate) don't know that.
but about the pda thing, yeah, i miss the hugs. guys don't hug. you can hug guys, but they don't really hug you. unless you're dating. and i only have one girl friend here. we hug...but not as much as we nerinx girls did at home. and i miss that. that's what we'll do when i visit, amanda! we'll hug. and do other stuff ;)
kinky... can i just reitterate that guys hug out here? but its insane hugs with alternative motives... to make other guys jealous or to piss off girl friends or exgirl friends or friends that happen to be girls but are probably lesbians but they aren't really sure but by hugging other girls they hope that the two girls will start to hug and eventually dildos will be added to the combination...see what i mean? alternative motives...
um... amanda, the thing to remember is that people come from different attitudes. we are not like everyone else. so you can't always expect the same back, because some people are uptight, or blah blah blah... i don't know. you should just find one or two people who also like to give hugs, so that when you really need one, you just have to find them.
hmmm, i would have to disagree with you carolyn, you give guys far too much credit. We are usually too lazy to scheme ways to make other guys jealous. I would say, were to lazy to give good hugs to anyone but our girlfriends too. We're just a lazy lot, in general. What you describe is more of a mean girls motive.
...but with more dildos
colorado boys are a different breed of boys...i give no credit where credit is not due...although i will say that the main reason the guys are so obnoxious is because the girls are overly dramatic here as well...but its not just the girls...
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i have to say that even though i get hugs here, especially from my theatre peeps, i still miss your hugs, ladies. a lot.
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unnecessary sarah.
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